Monday, January 3, 2022

The Soi-Disant Princely Bogdanoff Twins: Igor (1949-2022) and Grichka (1949-2021)

Grichka and Igor in the 1990s.

Within the space of less than a week, the well-known Bogdanoff twins, Grichka and Igor, died as the result of complications from Covid-19; the brothers were not vaccinated against the novel coronavirus. The Bogdanoffs had been admitted to the Hôpital Georges-Pompidou in Paris on 15 December. Grichka died on 28 December 2020; Igor followed his twin into eternity on 3 January 2021. The brothers Bogdanoff were seventy-two years-old.

Igor and Grichka on the set of their TV show Temps X, 1980.
Photo (c) Jean Paul Guilloteau / Getty Images.

Born on 29 August 1949 at Saint-Lary, France, the twins Igor Yurevich Bogdanoff and Grichka Yurevich Bogdanoff were the sons of Yuri Mikhailovich Ostasenko Bogdanoff (1928–2012) and Maria Dolores "Maya" Kolowrat-Krakowská (1926–1982). 

 
The twins' maternal grandfather, Roland Hayes.
The twins' maternal grandmother, Countess Berta von Kolowrat-Krakowsky.
Their paternal grandparents were Mikhail Borisovich Bogdanov and Anna Osten-Sacken. Their maternal grandparents were Roland Wiltse Hayes (1887-1977) and Countess Bertha von Kolowrat-Krakowský (1890-1982; formerly married to Count Hieronymus von Colloredo-Mannsfeld). Igor and Grichka were raised by their maternal grandmother.
 
Ludmilla d'Oultremont with her daughters Sacha and Anna, 2009.
Photo (c) Getty Images / Bertrand Rindoff Petroff.
In 1989, Igor Bogdanoff married Countess Ludmilla d’Oultremont (b.1965), the second daughter and child of Count Marc-Antoine d’Oultremont (1927-2005) and Countess Maria-Theresia von Galen (b.1938). Igor and Ludmilla had three children: Sacha Maria Bogdanoff (b.1989), Anna Claria Bogdanoff (b.1991), and Wenceslas Bogdanoff (b.1994). Igor and Ludmilla divorced in 1997.  
 
Igor and Amélie, 2015.
Photo (c) Getty Images / Bertrand Rindoff Petroff.
In 2009, Igor Bogdanoff married Amélie de Bourbon-Parme (b.1977), the daughter of Prince Michel of Bourbon-Parma (1926-2018) and Laure Le Bourgeois (b.1950). The wedding took place at the Chateau de Chambord and was attended by the bride's half-sister Princess Hélène of Yugoslavia. Igor and Amélie had two sons: Alexandre Bogdanoff (b.2011) and Constantin Bogdanoff (b.2014). Igor and Amélie separated in 2016 and divorced in 2018.
 
Geneviève Grad, 1964.
Photo (c) Getty Images.
From a previous relationship, Igor Bogdanoff and French actress Geneviève Grad (b.1944) had a son, Dimitri Bogdanoff (b.1976).
 
The Bogdanoffs, 2004.
Photo (c) Getty Images / Stephane Cardinale.
May the Brothers Bogdanoff Rest in Peace.
 
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Sunday, January 2, 2022

Caroline Vatcher, Artist and Last Duchess of Leeds

Caroline Vatcher on the eve of her wedding to the Duke of Leeds. Photo (c) Keystone Press / Alamy.

Caroline Fleur Vatcher was born on 31 May 1931 on the Isle of Jersey of the Channel Islands. Her parents had made their home on Jersey at 1 Dummy Lane, St Helier. Caroline was only child of Henry Monckton Vatcher (1887-1954) and Beryl Methwold Walrond (1896-1973), who wed in 1920 at Sudbury, Suffolk. Caroline's father Henry served in the Royal Engineers in France during the First World War. 

The marriage record of James Vatcher and Rosamond Monckton, 1886.
The announcement of the Vatcher/Monckton wedding in The Morning Post of London, 10 July 1886.
A report of the Vatcher/Monkton nuptials in The Nottinghamshire Guardian of Nottingham, 16 July 1886.

Caroline Vatcher descended from several aristocratic and landed British families. Her paternal grandparents were the Reverend James Raynold Morley Vatcher (1861-1931), Rector of Whitcombe, and Rosamond Isobel Monckton (1860-1946), who married on 8 July 1886 at All Saints' Church in Knightsbridge, London. The Rev. James Vatcher was the son of Henry Vatcher (1809-1886) and Eliza Frances Tonkin Higgs (d.1912). Rosamond Monckton was the daughter of Colonel Edmund Gambier Monckton (1809-1872) and Arabella Martha Robinson (1824-1880). Caroline Vatcher's paternal great-grandfather was William George Monckton-Arundell, later Monckton, 5th Viscount Galway (1782-1834); Caroline's second cousin was George Rupert Monckton-Arundell, 12th Viscount Galway (1922-2017).

The notice of the impending Walrond/Methold union in The Morning Post of London, 25 March 1895.
The obituary of Colonel Henry Walrond, Marquis de Vallado, in The Times of London, 21 June 1917.

Caroline's maternal grandparents were Francis Arthur Walrond (1866-1942) and Muriel Gwendoline Methwold Methold (1872-1957), who married on 24 April 1885 at Christ Church, Lancaster Gate, London. Francis Walrond was the son of Colonel Henry Walrond, 9th Marquis de Vallado (1841-1917) and Caroline Maud Clark (1837-1915). Muriel Methold was the daughter of Frederick John Methold (1841-1908) and Edith Caroline Taylor (1841-1908). Caorline's maternal great-great grandfather was James St Clair-Erskine, 2nd Earl of Rosslyn (1762-1837). Caroline's aunt was the British novelist Norah Aileen Burke (1907-1976), the wife of Caroline's maternal uncle Henry Humphrey R. Methwold Walrond (1904-1987).

The Duke of Leeds and his fiancée Caroline Vatcher, 1955.

In early 1955, the twenty-three year-old Caroline Vatcher and the fifty-three year-old John "Jack" Francis Godolphin Osborne, 11th Duke of Leeds, became engaged. Caroline had become a talented painter; she studied with Philip Lame and Bernard Adams. The Duke of Leeds and his fiancée visited London for a week in order for the future duchess to choose her trousseau. Tall and slender with long golden brown hair, Caroline told the London Evening Standard: "We shall be married in Jersey on February 22. Then we are flying to Cyprus for about three weeks. It will be the first time for me to go abroad. I expect we shall spend most of our time in Jersey with occasional trips to London.

The wedding of Jack Leeds and Audrey Young in the Evening Standard of London, 21 December 1948.
The birth of Lady Camilla Osborne as noted by the Evening Standard of London, 16 August 1950.
The Duke and Duchess of Leeds with their daughter Lady Camilla, 1950. Photo (c) ANL/Shutterstock.
John "Jack" Francis Godolphin Osborne, Marquess of Carmarthen, was born on 12 March 1901. Jack was the fifth child and only son of George Godolphin Osborne, 10th Duke of Leeds and Lady Katherine Frances Lambton. Upon his father's death in 1927, Jack succeeded to the dukedom of Leeds. In 1933, the 11th Duke of Leeds married Irma Amelia de Malkhozouny (1908-2000), an Italian-born ballerina of Serbian descent. Jack and Irma did not have children. Their marriage foundered: Jack and Irma separated in 1944 and were the subjects of two divorces (a Nevada divorce granted in November 1947 initiated by Irma, and a British divorce granted in October 1948 initiated by Jack) following the duchess's romance with American millionaire Frank Atherton Howard, whom she married the day after her American divorce was granted. In December 1948, the Duke of Leeds married for a second time to Audrey Young (b.1924; firstly married to Brigadier Arthur Evan Bedward Williams), the daughter of Brigadier Desmond Young. In 1950, Jack and Audrey, Duke and Duchess of Leeds, welcomed the birth of their only child, Lady Camilla Dorothy Godolphin Osborne. In 1951, the duke and duchess moved to Jersey for tax reasons. Several years later, in 1954, Jack and Audrey Leeds divorced after the duchess admitted to an affair with Sir David Roland Walter Lawrence, 3rd Bt., whom Audrey married in 1955.
Announcement of the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Leeds. This appeared on 23 February 1955 in The Guardian.
The Duke and Duchess of Leeds, 1955.
The Leeds/Vatcher marriage as reported in The Age of Melbourne, Australia, 24 February 1955.
The Duke and Duchess of Leeds were married on 22 February 1955 at the St. Helier Register Office on the Isle of Jersey. Much in love with her husband, the duchess was disappointed when she learned that she could not have children. 
The Leeds attend the opening of the Columbia Theatre in the West End, February 1959.
Caroline, Duchess of Leeds.
The Duke and Duchess of Leeds viewing Goya's painting of the Duke of Wellington, June 1961.
In May 1960, the Duchess of Leeds, who signed her works "Leeds," held an exhibition of her works at the Milton Gallery on Witcomb Street in London. Among the works was a full-length portrait of Caroline's nine year-old stepdaughter Lady Camilla, who also attended the cocktail party to launch the showing. This was the first time that the Duchess of Leeds publicly exhibited her works, which also included a painting of Gabrielle, the daughter of the Leeds' laundress at their villa near Cap Martin in the South of France. The Duke of Leeds suffered from poor health, and in the last years of his life the duke underwent double leg amputations. In June 1961, the Duke of Leeds sold Goya's painting of the Duke of Wellington (which was stolen in a sensational art theft shortly after it was sold) in addition to other works. The auction fetched nearly £300,000. The month after the art sale, Jack and Caroline moved into a flat in Eaton Square; this was their ninth move in the previous year. Jack dearly wanted to return to his home on Jersey, but he was not yet well enough. The duke repeatedly took short leases of apartments in London, optimistic that at the end of each lease he would in a good condition to return to Jersey, but this strategy became quite expensive. At the time, Caroline Leeds confessed, "We are still not sure when we shall return home. We hope it may be in September, when we leave this flat.
The Duke of Leeds.

On 26 July 1963, the 11th Duke of Leeds died in his villa, La Falaise, at Roquebrune-Cap-Martin on the French Riviera. Owing to his poor health, the duke had rarely left his room since September 1962. He was sixty-two years-old. The duke was survived by his wife Caroline, a widow at thirty-two, and his twelve year-old daughter Camilla. The Duke of Leeds was buried on 29 July at Roquebrune Cemetery. After his death, the will of the Duke of Leeds revealed that he left 1/3 of his personal fortune to his only child, Camilla, and the remaining 2/3 to his widow, Caroline.

Caroline, Duchess of Leeds, at an art gallery in London, 1964. Photo (c) Getty Images / M. McKeown.
Sir Robert Hobart, 3rd Bt.
Caroline, Duchess of Leeds.

In 1968, the Duchess of Leeds married Peter Hendrik Peregrine Hoos (1937-2003), the son of Edward Jan Hoos married Sarah Marie Adelaide Cust. Caroline's second husband was the maternal grandson of Adelbert Salusbury Cockayne Cust, 5th Baron Brownlow. Caroline Leeds and Peter Hoos divorced in 1975. Later in 1975, Caroline married Lieutenant Commander Sir Robert Hampden Hobart, 3rd Baronet (1915-1988). Caroline later mused: "I've had two happy marriages, and one unhappy one. I wouldn't mind another happy one." The happy marriages were to the Duke of Leeds and Sir Robert Hobart...the unhappy marriage was to the second husband.

Caroline, Duchess of Leeds, with Queen Elizabeth, The Queen Mother.

The last Duchess of Leeds died on 16 July 2005. She was seventy-four years-old. Caroline, Duchess of Leeds, requested that she be buried where she was born, on the Isle of Jersey.

Caroline, Duchess of Leeds. Photo (c) Mary Evans / AGE Fotostock.
A painting of Osborne House on the Isle of Wight by Caroline Leeds. This painting is owned by the author of this article.

Monday, December 27, 2021

Princess Maryam Begum of Afghanistan (1936-2021)

Princess Maryam with an Afghan nurse, 1960s.

Over the weekend, it was announced that Princess Maryam Begum of Afghanistan had passed away on 25 December. She was eighty-five years-old. Born on 2 November 1936, Princess Maryam was the fourth child and second daughter of King Mohammed Zahir Shah of Afghanistan (1914-2007) and Queen Humaira Begum (1918-2002), who wed in 1931. The princess was educated at the Malali School in Kabul. In 1960, Princess Maryam married Professor Muhammad Aziz Khan Naim (1935-1978). The couple had one son, Nadir Khan Naim (b.1965). The princess is survived by her son and her death is mourned by the Afghan royal family.

May Princess Maryam Rest in Peace. 

Sources:

https://www.khabaronline.ir/news/1586406/دختر-آخرین-پادشاه-افغانستان-درگذشت-عکس

https://www.royalark.net/Afghanistan/telai2.htm

Tuesday, December 21, 2021

The Duke of Kent to Release Memoirs in 2022

This is certain to be exciting news for royal watchers and historians!

In July 2022, the memoirs of the Duke of Kent will be published by Hodder & Stoughton, Ltd. Entitled A Royal Life, the tome was compiled based on conversations between the duke and royal historian Hugo Vickers. The book will be slightly over 300 pages. Following is an overview of the memoirs from its publisher:

The Duke of Kent has been at the center of Royal life since he was born. On his father's side he is a first cousin of The Queen, the grandson of King George V and Queen Mary, the nephew of King George VI - and on his mother's side he is a cousin of Prince Philip and descends from Greek, Danish and Russian Kings, Queens and Emperors. The Duke has been involved in all key royal events through his life - after the early death of his father he walked in the procession behind the King's coffin in 1952 and he paid homage to his cousin, the new Queen, at the Coronation in 1953. He was riding with her when the blanks were fired at the Trooping of the Colour in 1981 - and he was the only member of the Royal Family to stand alongside the Queen to celebrate her official birthday in June 2021. He is now 85 years old. A Royal Life, which includes never before seen photographs from the Duke's own collection, is based on a set of conversations between Prince Edward and Royal historian Hugo Vickers. The conversations focus on the most important moments and themes of The Queen's life and seventy-year reign. They offer a unique and unprecedented set of insights into life as a working royal and behind the scenes of the world's most celebrated family.

The Duke of Kent to Release Memoirs in 2022

This is certain to be exciting news for royal watchers and historians!

In July 2022, the memoirs of the Duke of Kent will be published by Hodder & Stoughton, Ltd. Entitled A Royal Life, the tome was compiled based on conversations between the duke and royal historian Hugo Vickers. The book will be slightly over 300 pages. Following is an overview of the memoirs from its publisher:

The Duke of Kent has been at the center of Royal life since he was born. On his father's side he is a first cousin of The Queen, the grandson of King George V and Queen Mary, the nephew of King George VI - and on his mother's side he is a cousin of Prince Philip and descends from Greek, Danish and Russian Kings, Queens and Emperors. The Duke has been involved in all key royal events through his life - after the early death of his father he walked in the procession behind the King's coffin in 1952 and he paid homage to his cousin, the new Queen, at the Coronation in 1953. He was riding with her when the blanks were fired at the Trooping of the Colour in 1981 - and he was the only member of the Royal Family to stand alongside the Queen to celebrate her official birthday in June 2021. He is now 85 years old. A Royal Life, which includes never before seen photographs from the Duke's own collection, is based on a set of conversations between Prince Edward and Royal historian Hugo Vickers. The conversations focus on the most important moments and themes of The Queen's life and seventy-year reign. They offer a unique and unprecedented set of insights into life as a working royal and behind the scenes of the world's most celebrated family.

Sunday, December 19, 2021

Marie-Thérèse de Damas (1920-2021), Aunt of the Margrave of Meissen

The birth registration of Maria Teresa Afif, 1920.

According to Le Figaro, Madame Marie-Thérèse de Damas died in France on 13 December 2021; she was 101 years-old. Marie-Thérèse was the widow of René de Damas, who she married in 1948. The couple had five children: Carmen, Etienne, Chantal, Anne, and Elisabeth. Marie-Thérèse was born Maria Teresa Afif on 11 November 1920 at Puebla, Mexico, as the daughter of Alejandro (Alexander) Afif and his wife Maria (née Attye). Her parents had emigrated to Mexico from Lebanon and Syria. Contemporary genealogies give her birth year as 1926; however, having researched the databases of Puebla, Mexico, it appears that several years were subtracted from not only Maria Teresa's age, but that of her siblings as well. Marie-Thérèse was the sister-in-law of Prince Karl Anton of Hohenzollern and Princess Maria Anna of Saxony. The nephew of the deceased is Prince Alexander of Saxony, Margrave of Meißen.

May Marie-Thérèse Rest in Peace.

Thursday, December 16, 2021

Paul Lambrino, Wanted for Crimes in Romania, Possibly Spotted In Paris

Late in November 2021, Paul Lambrino (aka Prince Paul of Hohenzollern / Prince Paul of Romania) appears to have been photographed in the French capital. Monsieur Lambrino was seemingly shown attending a dinner for the Club des Leaders in Paris. As reported by Romania-Insider in December 2020, "Paul-Philippe al Romaniei, also known as Prince Paul of Romania, the grandson of King Carol II of Romania, has become a wanted person as the Police are trying to get him to jail, where he has to serve a 40-month sentence in a corruption case. Romania’s High Court (ICCJ) on December 17 announced the final sentences in the 'Royal Farm' corruption case, including a final 40-month sentence for Prince Paul." Paul Lambrino is the subject of an arrest warrant by the Romanian government for the crimes of which he was found guilty. Hopefully, he will be found and brought to justice.

The "Wanted Person" notice of Paul al Romaniei.

Sources:

Romanian prince becomes wanted person to serve jail sentence in corruption case
Prince Paul of Romania is now a wanted fugitive

Wednesday, December 15, 2021

The 80th Birthday of the Fürst zu Löwenstein-Wertheim-Rosenberg

Today, Fürst Alois-Konstantin zu Löwenstein-Wertheim-Rosenberg celebrates his eightieth birthday!

Fürst Alois, Hereditary Prince Karl and Hereditary Princess Carolina, and Fürstin Josephine, 1935.

Born on 16 December 1941 at Würzburg, Prince Alois-Konstantin Karl Eduard Joseph Johann Konrad Antonius Gerhard Georg Benediktus Pius Eusebius Maria zu Löwenstein-Wertheim-Rosenberg was the fifth child and first son of Hereditary Prince Karl zu Löwenstein-Wertheim-Rosenberg (1904-1990) and his wife Carolina dei Conti Rignon (1904-1975), who married in 1935. Alois-Konstantin's father succeeded his grandfather Alois as Fürst zu Löwenstein-Wertheim-Rosenberg in 1952 upon Alois's death. Aloys-Konstantin has six sisters: Princess Maria (b.1935; married Archduke Joseph of Austria), Princess Josephine (b.1937; married Prince Alexander of Liechtenstein), Princess Monika (b.1939; married Don Jaime Mendez de Vigo y del Arco), Princess Christiane (b.1940; married Archduke Michael of Austria), Princess Elisabeth (b.1944; married José Maria Trénor y Suarez de Lezo, Marchese de Cerdanyola), and Princess Lioba (b.1946; married Fürst Moritz Eugen zu Oettingen-Oettingen und Oettingen-Wallerstein).

In 1965, Hereditary Prince Alois-Konstantin married Princess Anastasia of Prussia (b.1944), the eldest and only surviving daughter of Prince Hubertus of Prussia and his wife Princess Madgalene (née Reuß). Alois-Konstantin and Anastasia have four children: Hereditary Prince Carl Friedrich (1966-2010; married Baroness Stephanie von Brenken), Prince Hubertus (b.1968; married Baroness Iris von Dörnberg), Princess Christina (b.1974; m. Guido von Rohr), and Prince Dominik (b.1983; married Countess Olga zu Castell-Rüdenhausen). Fürst Alois-Konstantin and Fürstin Anastasia have nine grandchildren.

Alois-Konstantin and Anastasia.

Our best wishes to the Fürst on his birthday! 

Tuesday, December 14, 2021

Countess Marianne "Bunny" Esterházy (1938-2021)

Countess Marianne Esterhazy in 1998.

Announcements in The Times and The Telegraph have noted that Countess Marianne "Bunny" Esterházy died on 27 November 2021 at the age of eighty-two. 

 
The death announcement in The Telegraph.
The countess was a private person, with many fascinating connections, and she will surely be deeply missed by her surviving son, her grandchildren, her family, and her friends.

 

Bunny's mother Etti.
Photo (c) Getty Images / Central Press.

Born on 12 December 1938 at Budapest, Countess Mária Anna "Bunny" Berta Felicie Johanna Ghislaine Theodora Huberta Georgina Helene Genoveva Esterházy was the first and only child of Count Mária Tamás "Tommy" Pál Esterházy (1901-1964) and Countess Maria "Etti" von Wurmbrand-Stuppach (1914-2003), who married in 1938 and divorced in 1944. Bunny's mother Etti was married six times. Etti's memoirs, Horses and Husbands, are a fascinating read; they were published after her death with the great assistance of royal and noble biographer Hugo Vickers. 

Countess Bunny Esterhazy in 1956.
In her memoirs, Bunny's mother recalls with a touching dose of self-reflection: "We had one daughter... Of course, I did not look after Bunny myself when she was little. We had lovely English nurses. One of them had been nurse to the Queen and Princess Margaret and she loved dogs. So there were always dogs in the nursery. We were not very happy about that, but she assured us that in England babies and dogs were always together. It was so funny. I know that I was neither a good nor attentive mother. Both Tommy and I adored Bunny, but we either left her with the nannies or despatched her to stay with friends." Despite the divorce of Bunny's parents, it is clear from her mother's memoirs (which are really a must have!) that they both fiercely loved their daughter, in their own way. In April 1956, Bunny's mother Etti and her stepfather Arpad Plesch hosted a ball for the young countess at Claridges in London. The then seventeen year-old Bunny had been presented to society the previous month. In 1957 and 1958, it was reported that Bunny Esterhazy was a good friend of the Aga Khan, who was only a few years older than her. 

Dominic Elliot and Bunny Esterhazy upon their engagement.

On 4 May 1962 at London, Countess Bunny Esterházy married London 4 May 1969 the Honourable George Esmond Dominic Elliot-Murray-Kynynmound (1931-2018), the youngest son of the 5th Earl of Minto. The wedding of the Countess and the son of the Earl of Minto was attended by The Queen as well as her sister The Princess Margaret and Lord Snowdon in addition to the Duke and Duchess of Gloucester. Dominic Elliot had been a youthful beau of Princess Margaret. The reception following the wedding was held at Lord Astor's Carlton House Terrace alongside the Mall. 

Dominic Elliot and Bunny Esterhazy on their wedding day.

The Elliots went on to have two children: sons Alexander (1963-1985) and Esmond (b.1965). Dominic and Bunny divorced in 1972, having separated some years before. In 1970, Bunny Esterhazy was romantically linked to the Earl of Carnarvon, a connection which her mother Etti strongly denied when asked for comment. In 1974, Bunny Esterhazy and Keith Mason, 4th Baron Blackford, were reported to be in a relationship; however, this did not result in a marriage.

Countess Bunny Esterhazy with the then Marchioness of Tavistock (later Duchess of Bedford), 1980.
Photo (c) ANL/Shutterstock.

May the Countess Rest in Peace.

Monday, December 13, 2021

The Baptism of the Heir to House Murat

Photo (c) Cyrille Boulay.

On Sunday, 12 December, Prince Joachim Murat was baptised at the Cathédrale Saint-Louis des Invalides in Paris. Prince Joachim Georges Laurent Napoléon Murat was born on 3 August as the first child of Prince Joachim Murat and his wife Princess Yasmine (née Briki). Among the godparents of the little prince were Grand Duke George Mikhailovich of Russia and Princess Noal Zaher of Egypt (née Afghanistan). Numerous royal relations and friends were also present at this happy occasion: Prince Charles Bonaparte (father of the Prince Napoléon), Prince Mohammed Ali of Egypt, and Princess Victoria Romanovna Romanoff (wife of Grand Duke George). 

Thursday, December 9, 2021

Bertil and Lilian of Sweden Reflect on Their Lives in Candid 1985 Interview

Prince Bertil of Sweden and Lilian Davies Craig after the announcement of their engagement, Oct. 1976. Photo (c) Getty Images / Keystone.

In December 1985, Prince Bertil and Princess Lilian of Sweden, Duke and Duchess of Halland, paid a visit to the United States. During that time, the royal couple were guests of the Swedish-American Council of Greater Boston and the Swedish Council of America. While resting at their rooms at the Westin Hotel, both the prince and princess gave separate interviews, while expressing nearly identical sentiments, about their love for one another and their life together. Bertil and Lilian had married nine years before in 1976, after beginning a relationship in 1943.

Princess Lilian of Sweden.

Princess Lilian:

In a loving relationship a sense of humour is important. You have to laugh at the pressures in your life. Especially, you have to laugh at yourself. 

Companionship is one of the things that has made our relationship. We have always enjoyed doing the same things. We take long walks together. I love my husband's loyalty towards his duties, his job. Besides, he's a very good chef.

We wed late. Too late to have children. We had to wait such a long time to get married. I regret not having children. But now the queen's children are like my grandchildren. I makes up. Well, not quite.

We were not allowed to be seen in public for many years. I missed being with my husband. Sometimes I felt it wasn't nice. But it was nice that we were together, anyway. That made it less of a strain. We were always very much in love. We enjoyed every moment we were together.

My wedding day was the happiest day of my life. I was as nervous as a kitten. I had butterflies in my tummy. When we exchanged vows, I was afraid I wouldn't even remember my husband's name. I wore a wonderful pale blue gown.

Before our wedding, my husband asked: 'What will you wear on your head? We are of a certain age, so you cannot wear a tiara.' It was supposed to be a secret, the way I looked, so I just replied: 'A hat.' And he pressed on: 'But what kind of a hat?'

I thought he was being too curious. He wouldn't be put off. So I told him I was wearing feathers in my hair. Well, I'll never forget the astonished look on his face. 'Feathers?' he said and went silent. Actually, I wore a hat covered with feathers that were dyed to match my wedding gown. He told me then that I was a beautiful bride.

My husband is an ordinary man. He doesn't behave like a prince. When I have company, he helps me in the kitchen. We get dressed up for the job, like the Nobel Prize (award ceremonies), but as soon as we get home, we get into our favourite clothes: sweaters and trousers.

I'm a feminist. The first feminist decision I made was to live with the man I love. I chose to be with the prince. It was a long wait (marriage). But good things are worth waiting for, and my husband is a good man. Now I feel the challenge of our life is to do our job, to help the king and queen as much as we can.

Prince Bertil of Sweden in 1964.
Photo by Bergne Porträttstudio AB.

Prince Bertil:

I have always done my best to be a good prince. I have always had an agreeable life. I'm a prince, but I still like to do ordinary things, live an ordinary life. I am a very ordinary person. 

We have a house on the outskirts of Stockholm. We have a house in the south of France. We live simply. My office is in the palace. There, I have a suite, a great room for great receptions. But it's just part of the job.

I love the married life. I love my wife. She's very sweet. Love is the most important aspect of anyone's life. We've been together from the very first. The big regret I have is that I married late. We would have liked to have children.

All those years not being married wasn't easy. But we were very lucky. The Swedish press was very understanding, touch wood! It's really remarkable. I think they (the press) liked me. If they had wanted to be ruthless, they could have written badly about us and perhaps ruined our life. I asked them not to write about us at all, and they didn't. 

My wedding day was the happiest moment of my life. The first priority of our lives is that we always loved one another. We were comrades. We were friends. We helped each other. And all that loyalty still continues.

I was never bitter about not being able to marry. It was difficult for my father to give us permission to marry. I understand that. I had promised my father that I'd stay with him, to help him with his work. He was a wonderful man. I could talk to him about anything. Nothing every embarrassed him. 

I performed my duties, and I waited. No, we waited 33 years. That's a long time. But we were happy together, so it was not as bad as it may seem. We had a pleasant life. What was difficult was that she was not allowed to appear at my side in public. That hurt me. But what could I do? Somehow, we got used to it. Somehow. But she had courage. Now that the Swedish people know her, they love her. Even my father was kind to us. I know he liked her.

I'm 73 years old now. I still drive a car, but I don't race. I raced cars in 1936. I liked knowing how the engine stood up under pressure. I liked knowing how I stood up under pressure. I've always thought the sportsman was a happy man. I loved sports - any kind of sports. A sportsman is competitive. I like competition, especially on the Olympic level. The rivals are at war with each other. Yet the overriding spirit is unity. I do love unity.

I came to the United States first in 1938 to celebrate the 300th anniversary of the first landing of Swedes in Wilmington, Del. We came by ship. My father fell ill. Kidney trouble. He got very sick. He said to me: 'You have to take over.'

I had never made a speech in my life. I was rather shaken at the prospect, very nervous. I was put in front of first-class professional speakers, like President Roosevelt. It was a big challenge. It was something I had to do. So I did it.

No one threw rotten eggs at me. I believe that was my real beginning, my baptism.

Prince Bertil and Princess Lilian in 1995. Photo (c) Getty Images / James Andanson.

Prince Bertil died in 1997 at the age of eighty-four. Princess Lilian passed away in 2013 at the age of ninety-seven. The couple had been together for fifty-four years and married for twenty-one. They are buried together at the Royal Cemetery in Solna. 

Wednesday, December 8, 2021

A Religious Marriage in the Imperial House of Brazil

Princess Patrícia and Prince Pedro Carlos.

On 9 October 2021, Prince Pedro Carlos of Orleans-Braganza and his wife Princess Patrícia (née Alvim Rodrigues) celebrated their religious marriage at Petrópolis. The couple were civilly married on 1 September 2018. Prince Pedro Carlos (b.1945) is the son of Prince Pedro Gastão of Orleans-Braganza and his wife Princess Esperanza of Bourbon-Two Sicilies. Princess Patrícia is the daughter of José Jorge Rodrigues and Maria Norma Alvim Rodrigues. This is the third marriage for the prince. In 1975, Pedro Carlos married Rony Kuhn de Souza (1938-1979), who sadly died following the birth of the couple’s only child, Prince Pedro Thiago (b.1979). In 1981, Pedro Carlos married Patrícia Alexandra Brascombe (1962-2009); the couple had one son, Prince Filipe (b.1982).

Our congratulations to Prince Pedro Carlos and Princess Patrícia!

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